A few years ago, I was deeply unhappy. My life was seemingly great in most areas,, I worked in a spiritual field of serving, I had abundance of money, externally I had it all but I was miserable in my relationship. I didn’t understand why I had my whole life in order but behaved in ways I wasn’t proud of in my intimate relationship. I just couldn’t seem to hold a functional relationship together. I longed for so SO much more but I didn’t know how to end the patterns we were in and find a sense of safety and connection and to communicate in ways that prevented hurt and allowed true listening and resolve with my partner.
We made the decision to separate and it was during that time I began learning about relationships. I devoured everything I could get my hands on and then later trained in this field. I became qualified as a Love, Sex and Relationship coach and then an Imago facilitator. Slowly everything that was happening for us became clear and we began understanding our wounding, our patterns and our triggers and what was creating these patterns in my relationship.
Awareness of what is happening and why is the first step, doing the work is the second. We embarked on our own personal journey and were held by our own coach. Looking back we wouldn’t have made it if it wasn’t for knowing we had a coach, someone who knew their relationship stuff, held strong space and a bright light for our relationship to make it when we couldn’t see it ourselves.
Our coach held us through the painful parts where it could easily have derailed without him and we slowly but surely began working through our pains, triggers, childhood memories, childhoods, past resentments, desires and longings. This is exactly the gift that I am now able to offer couples in Union, my one to one offering.
If someone said to you, I am confident that this work and my one to one coaching will transform your relationship and in total it will cost you just over 3k, would you do it?
The relief and the changes to my life after conducting this work have been life changing.
The impact to my health and wellbeing, my mental health, my thriving, my presence, my joy have been literally priceless. And if and when things do come up in my relationship, we have all the tools and knowledge to get back in the boat and repair with ease.
Now that my relationship works, it’s like the rest of my life is ease, joy, peace and it just works!!
£3k extraordinarily well spent I say.
What you get from me included in this package:
◉ A 4 month deep dive intensive container
◉ 3 x 75 min coaching sessions per month using the incredible Imago dialoguing as our foundational tool
◉ Access to All C-School modules – every single thing you will need to literally transform your relationship
◉ Practices, meditations, date nights, worksheets and access to learn the full Imago model.
(These are profound practices and game changers for relationships.)
◉ A bonus couples interactive workshop
◉ A free 2 hour personalised human design reading
◉ Ongoing Voxer support whenever you need it (additional cost)
This work has everything you need to transform your relationship, without a doubt.
It’s a commitment both in terms of your time and your finances but if you both desire your relationship to improve, to connect, to be able to communicate and for your relationship to become one of nurturance, joy and connection then your decision is really unquestionable.
YES! I want all of this!
And choosing me?
Choose me, if you want someone who will hold a blazing light for your relationship and you two as individuals,
Someone who is unafraid to meet you at the places many are afraid to go to,
Someone who is trauma informed and in deep integrity in her work,
Someone who has a profound and unwaverable faith in this work and an embodied healing herself,
Someone who can see patterns and relationship dynamics quickly and intuitively,
Someone who weaves in other practices from ancient Tantra, Eastern philosophy, neuropsychology to embodiment and somatic practices.
Someone who holds this work in the highest consecration of deep service in the world.
Returning to love is the highest gift we can say yes to.
Union offers the tools and deep support to get you both there.
What you will learn in Union both through the pre recorded modules, the home play practices and the one to one deep work we will undertake together:
- Understand where your reactions and responses that arise in your partnership come from and learn to begin changing these in order to improve your relationship.
- Learn trauma responses and new ways to ground, self soothe and self regulate.
- Establish important intentions together as a couple.
- Create a beautiful couples ritual to honour the journey you are beginning together.
- Create a blueprint for the relationship you desire to move towards using 2 x neuro-science based re-wiring practices.
- Understand how important cultivating safety is within your relationship and delving deeper into the needs of you and your partner around safety.
- Learn a beautiful communication practice to explore this in depth and how you can both contribute to the safety you both help each other to feel.
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Inspired by Stan Tatkin’s (Wired for love) ‘Couple Bubble’, you will identify your longings, desires and needs, and you and your partner will practice and experiment with intentionally meeting each other’s needs through learning how to create your very own couple bubble.
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You will learn a profound technique and game changer for conflict and particularly in those times where we get stuck on who’s right and who is wrong. ‘Gaining relationship clarity’ enables us to learn how to move out of our own truth and see the perspective of the other in deep and insightful ways. We will learn the truth of our personal reality and perspectives and in doing so learn to be more insightful, compassionate and more attuned partners.
Studies show that inability to quickly repair after rupture can cause much more damage than couples who come back together sooner.
- Learn safe practices to repair rupture quickly and ‘Get back into your relationship boat’. Also learn current behaviours which may be preventative of quick and easy loving repair. Learn the art of mess less, harmless conversations and how to clean up mess and repair rupture with ease.
The majority of our relationship issues, reactions and conflict comes from our unmet childhood needs and early conditioning.
- Inner child work is a fundamental part of relationships, you will learn about how your childhood affects you in your relationship today. You will work individually to gain clarity on your deepest unmet needs, how to connect your behaviour now with what happened in the past and how to re imagine, heal and restore the past.
- You will also learn deeper self love, self understanding and self compassion.
This is a profound way to significantly alter the course of your relationship and your entire life. It is the root to understanding ALL of your behaviours and needs.
- You will learn and practice some profound intimacy and connection deepening practices with your partner. These include couples energy techniques, breathing practices, eye gazing and connection based body practices.
- This is a profound unit surrounding your ability to self soothe. Finding your own inner parent and healing the relationship with your own parents so that you may learn how to repair-ent and how to self soothe yourself. You will learn to understand and heal these dynamics in order to end the cycles left over from the past and release any of the echoes that appear within your relationship with your partner.
What you will learn in our 121 coaching sessions:
- Understand essential relationship theory, take part in a relationship transforming couples connection practice.
- Understand and practice the fundamentals of dialoguing and share some beautiful communication exercises.
- Learn the life changing full couples dialogue technique from Imago and practice with your partner. The transformational Imago dialoguing technique - this is the dialoguing technique that changed mine and Luke’s communication and connection forever.
You will practice confidentiality in the privacy of your own home. - IMAGO as a dialoguing technique in itself has the capacity to TRANSFORM your relationship.
- Learn and pocket an incredible life long relationship technique for asking for your partner to adapt a behaviour. You will understand where the need comes from, help to share this in a way that helps your partner to understand and feel motivated to change and in a way that your partner can truly hear you. You will also explore and learn more about your own behaviours and where in the past these come from.
- You will enjoy fun, positive emotion fuelled communication exercises and fun, sexy intimacy practices. Fun is an integral part of your relationship. Who doesn’t long for more excitement, laughter and fun in their relationship?
- You will create your shared future relationship vision together. Some couples see this as more important than their marriage certificates. This becomes a manifesto for your shared future and something that couples use to come back to and re align with over and over again.
- You will engage with an integration and closing activity to embed your learning of the container, create new commitments to you and your relationship. What are you saying goodbye to and what are you calling in.
If you are ready to transform your relationship with the support and care of someone who has walked this path and healed her own very difficult and trauma fuelled relationship. I am here and ready for you.
If you need more clarity and to know whether this work is for you or whether I am for you, I offer a free 30 min clarity call so you can ask any questions, feel into me and have a taster of this work
If you or your partner are not a complete YES and you're still unsure if UNION is right for you, but you’re feeling a stirring around it, then I welcome you on to a free 30 - 40 min call for union. There is absolutely no pressure. I don't ever want to persuade anyone but to give full answers to your questions so you can get clarity and I trust you will always know what's right for you after our call. You can request one here.
**What is the VIP Voxer support?**
VIP voxer support is one to one voice recording support for couples throughout the programme via the programme voxer.
How it works:
We will send guidance via email after purchase of the vip voxer add on with details of how you download voxer and how to contact me whenever you need to.
I respond to Clients and anything they’d like to share, be advised on, have witnessed in their relationship within 24 hours Monday-Friday
(This excludes Christmas week)
The voxer support is designed for bespoke high quality and intuitive individual support, advice and guidance by me, Kate when and where you need it to help when things come up during the UNION container.
Whilst here for professional support, advice and guidance, I also encourage my clients and group participants to trust themselves and their own ability to hold their process. In this respect if I feel that the voxer support is used in a way that causes a mis balance in terms of your own self trust or self reliance, I will let you know. I believe this to be in the deep interest of those I serve.
£250 cost per couple (for the entire 4 month container).
Book a discovery call with meAbout Me
I am Kate Lambert who will be holding you and guiding you through Union alongside my beautiful team. I am a qualified teacher who gave up working in the system I no longer believed in to serve in the rising of humanity. I have a decade long experience of what it feels like to be in a struggling relationship and what it is to heal. I began my own path of healing in 2007. I run women’s circles and retreats. I am trained as a Love, Sex & Relationship coach from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. I am a trained Imago facilitator. I hold an MSc in Counselling Psychology. I am a trauma informed practitioner.
I see couples and individuals in my private one-to-one practice, workshops, retreats and courses. I guide using Imago, sexual empowerment, embodiment, breathwork, somatic experiencing and Tantra facilitation.
I blend ancient mystical traditions, traditional coaching, ritual, counselling psychology and neuroscience into my work.
My highest consecration for this work is to our healing as a collective, to shed past traumas and raise into higher consciousness so that we, humanity, including our children and future generations, can spend more of our lives in love, connection and joy. I believe we are all meant to live a life of thriving and when your relationship is, you are!
Union highest consecration is the path of love and deep remembrance of our capacity as humans to love and be loved.
I am often referred to as the queen of compassion. I would like you to know that my transmission and holding will be in service to this deep consecration and one of deep compassion, understanding and in service to the highest potential of your relationship and to the highest good of all for our collective healing and evolvement.
May we all know deep love, peace and joy once more.
May we return to our natural states of joy and thriving.
Deep love
Kate x
